Author Archives: Vrndavana Vinodini

think before you speak
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Verse 3.26: So as not to disrupt the minds of ignorant men attached to the fruitive results of prescribed duties, a learned person should not induce them to stop work. Rather, by working in the spirit of devotion, he should engage them in all sorts of activities [for the gradual development of Kṛṣṇa consciousness].

Ever get so excited about something that when you get a chance to talk about it with others you just talk their head off? If so, you’re not alone!

In some cases though, you may find out that the person you were speaking to got turned off by your rambling because they just couldn’t relate to what you were saying.

At some point in time our lives, I think most of us have been both the source of such over-exuberance and the recipient of it! Today’s verse speaks to this type of situation by offering some extremely practical advice to the super excited individual who is just bursting at the seams to speak:

Think before you speak.

Communications 101 teaches us that knowing your audience is just as important as how, what and why you’re sharing information. The most effective communication occurs when we address the needs, interests and concerns of whoever we are talking to. Also extremely important is the relationship we have with the person we are conversing with.

Here, the Gita is saying that it takes time to understand bhakti. That’s why it’s important to start at the beginning. If you recall, one of the key topics Krsna speaks to Arjuna about (the first being the importance of the soul), is the necessity of working according to one’s nature. Note: Krsna did not advice Arjuna to give up everything and run away to the forest to meditate.

Essentially, Krsna addressed Arjuna’s needs, interests and concerns on a very practical level. Now as we continue to journey through the Gita, we’ll learn more about the intricate nature of bhakti and how the most advanced bhakti yogis are not obligated work. But….that takes time, knowledge and the practical and steady application of the bhakti process.

Sometimes when we get really excited or inspired, we can overwhelm our listeners. What I love about this verse is that it’s so applicable and relevant in our everyday lives. After all…I don’t think anyone can argue that it’s always best to think before we speak

to follow or to imitate?
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Verse 3.24: If I did not perform prescribed duties, all these worlds would be put to ruination. I would be the cause of creating unwanted population, and I would thereby destroy the peace of all living beings.

As the Gita continues to speak about the necessity of leadership, it brings to mind another question that perhaps some of you have also pondered. Is it better to follow great persons or better to imitate? Please find below today’s “post” in the form of an infographic I put together highlighting some of crucial differences between following and imitating.

Are you convinced?

spirit of leadership
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Verse 3.23: For if I ever failed to engage in carefully performing prescribed duties, O Pārtha, certainly all men would follow My path

For the past few verses, we’ve been discussing two essential aspects of leadership: 1) walking one’s talk when everyone’s watching and 2) walking one’s talk when no one is watching.

Today though, I’d like to discuss a very subtle aspect of leadership and that is: motivation.

Our motivations and consciousness behind pursuing or doing anything has a huge effect on others. This especially holds true when a person is in a position of leadership.

In our world today, we have numerous examples of leaders whose motivations are questionable. Some may be in it for the power, others for the prestige and others due to the amount of money such positions may bring.

Note the one thing all these motivations have in common – they all serve the interest of one person alone; the person who is the “supposed” leader.

True leadership is when a leader puts their self-interest last and puts the welfare of others first. That leader is the one who doesn’t micro-manage but instead allows and encourages everyone elses’ gifts shine. Their yardstick in personally measuring how good a job they are doing as a leader is in witnessing the successes and growth of the people they are in charge of. In fact, if someone surpasses them in their own skills or talents, they take great happiness in that.

In other words, they are interested in creating more leaders, not just gathering more followers.

That’s exactly what we are hearing today from the Supreme Leader. Krsna is revealing his consciousness in this verse by saying, “If I fail to set an proper example, then everyone else will follow that.” As the Supreme, He has the best excuse not to have to follow anything but Krsna doesn’t opt for that route. Why? Because He is showing by example what it means to be a true leader.

So if you’re ever in a position of leadership or given that opportunity, think back to this verse. It’s an important one to meditate on as it will always guide you to adopt the true spirit of leadership.

yoga and leadership
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Verse 3.22: O son of Pṛthā, there is no work prescribed for Me within all the three planetary systems. Nor am I in want of anything, nor have I a need to obtain anything — and yet I am engaged in prescribed duties.

Krsna, the speaker of the Gita, is known as Yogesvara. The name Yogesvara refers to the one who is the master of all mystic powers and the greatest of all yogis.

For all those of you who consider yourselves to be practitioners of yoga (or aspiring practitioners), this verse is of great importance since it teaches a key lesson in leadership. And for the rest of you, by the end this post you might realize that yourself are an aspiring yogi!

But before we get to that, I’d like to ask all of you a question today:

What does the word yoga mean?

I’m sure something came to your mind…so hang on to it! As many of you may know, Sanskrit is a complex language where one word may have several meanings. The context a word is used in is just as important as the many meanings it may have. That being said, there is always an essence or root from which each word stems from and for the word yoga that is: to link up

Link up in the sense of establishing relationships. The first step starts with establishing a relationship between the body and soul by recognizing they are different. After all it takes a minimum of two things to even have a relationship! By recognizing that difference, then it becomes easier to understand how they relate with one another (a key to any successful relationship). In conjunction with understanding that relationship, as one progresses, the linking aspect goes deeper.

It’s about making soul to soul connections.

That’s what we all crave and what we are all seeking for, whether we are aware of it or not. Ultimately, the goal of yoga is to re-establish our loving and eternal connection with the Supreme.

That’s why spiritual texts like the Gita are so invaluable – because it’s not just anyone giving us practical guidance and help but the Supreme Himself.

Recognizing that aspiring yogis (i.e. persons who want to “link up”) may need some step by step guidance, Krsna is not just telling us what to do, but showing us by His own example.

That is, He’s walking the talk. In Chapter 2, we discussed at length the importance of performing work and the spirit in which one does so. One question that we didn’t address there was – why do we even need to perform work? That answer is given today – to obtain things that we need (i.e. food, clothing, shelter etc…)

What’s amazing is the fact Krsna, being the Supreme, doesn’t need to obtain anything because He has everything! That is, there is no need for Him to do work. However, just to show us by example “how it’s done”, He does so.

This is what real leadership is all about. It’s about recognizing the fact that actions inspire and motivate others and getting out there and doing what you speak!

why?
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As some of you may know, I’ve taken on the challenge of writing on a verse of the Gita daily (www.gitaasitis.com). That’s why I haven’t been writing as regularly as I would like to here. That being said, today I wrote some reflections on Chapter 2, Verse 10 of the Bhagavad-gita and thought I’d share it here.

Verse 2.10: O descendant of Bharata, at that time Kṛṣṇa, smiling, in the midst of both the armies, spoke the following words to the grief-stricken Arjuna.

On the surface, this verse seems pretty astonishing. Krsna is smiling at Arjuna’s grief? What kind of God is this? Someone who takes pleasure in others’ suffering?

Firstly, let’s clear one thing up. Krsna is not smiling at Arjuna’s grief. Krsna is smiling because his dear friend has now taken shelter of him. He is smiling because Arjuna wants to let go of the material suffering he is experiencing, as a result of identifying with his body, and instead wants to understand what reality is all about. Now that puts things in a whole different perspective, doesn’t it? Just like a parent who may smile with compassion and understanding when their child comes to them in a heartbroken state and asks for help, Krsna too is smiling because this dear soul is now turning to him.

Arjuna is putting all his faith and trust in Krsna, a lesson we can all take inspiration from. Oftentimes, when things don’t go the way we want, when we lose loved ones and when we see someone else getting something we think we “deserve”, we blame God. C’mon, if you are in any way religious, spiritual or just believe in a higher force or entity, I’m sure you know what I’m talking about.

Our problem is that we have been burned by the material energy so often. Not just in this lifetime but in previous lifetimes. Although we may not remember those previous lifetimes, what we carry with us are the impressions from those lifetimes. Having been hurt, disappointed, misled, and betrayed, it is no wonder that we have such a hard time trusting one another, what to speak of God.

God doesn’t work by “our rules”, which by the way are often different for every single living entity. He gives us what we need. And what is that need? Normally it’s not the red Porsche, million dollar book deal or perfect relationship. No, often those things will just drive us away from him since we will feel we don’t need anything but material temporary pleasures. What we do need is a reminder that our trust and faith should be put in that person who will never let us down – God.

But we forget this and keep questioning “Why? What did I ever do to deserve this?” Thing is, we cannot remember everything we’ve done to deserve what we’re receiving now, but Krsna does. The law of karma states that for every action, there is an equal reaction. Because we tend to live our lives thinking that nothing comes before or after this lifetime, this truth doesn’t often bring solace to the heart. But, if we were to actually remember this, things won’t affect us as strongly as they do.

Krsna only wants us to come back to him. So everything that happens to us, whether good or bad, is actually an opportunity to remember that. Anyone who is aspiring to reconnect with God will go through this. “But why?” we may ask and the answer is actually quite simple. To make us stronger. To deepen our faith.

Growth only occurs when there is some pressure. Whether it be a weight-lifter, academic or aspiring bhakti yogi, we grow the most in difficult conditions. Not conditions that will break us, but those that will stretch us. God loves us more than we can even fathom, so the next time you pose the question “Why?” remember that. The answer is because we need to grow and he’s giving us the opportunity to come closer to him.

why?
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As some of you may know, I’ve taken on the challenge of writing on a verse of the Gita daily (www.gitaasitis.com). That’s why I haven’t been writing as regularly as I would like to here. That being said, today I wrote some reflections on Chapter 2, Verse 10 of the Bhagavad-gita and thought I’d share it here.

Verse 2.10: O descendant of Bharata, at that time Kṛṣṇa, smiling, in the midst of both the armies, spoke the following words to the grief-stricken Arjuna.

On the surface, this verse seems pretty astonishing. Krsna is smiling at Arjuna’s grief? What kind of God is this? Someone who takes pleasure in others’ suffering?

Firstly, let’s clear one thing up. Krsna is not smiling at Arjuna’s grief. Krsna is smiling because his dear friend has now taken shelter of him. He is smiling because Arjuna wants to let go of the material suffering he is experiencing, as a result of identifying with his body, and instead wants to understand what reality is all about. Now that puts things in a whole different perspective, doesn’t it? Just like a parent who may smile with compassion and understanding when their child comes to them in a heartbroken state and asks for help, Krsna too is smiling because this dear soul is now turning to him.

Arjuna is putting all his faith and trust in Krsna, a lesson we can all take inspiration from. Oftentimes, when things don’t go the way we want, when we lose loved ones and when we see someone else getting something we think we “deserve”, we blame God. C’mon, if you are in any way religious, spiritual or just believe in a higher force or entity, I’m sure you know what I’m talking about.

Our problem is that we have been burned by the material energy so often. Not just in this lifetime but in previous lifetimes. Although we may not remember those previous lifetimes, what we carry with us are the impressions from those lifetimes. Having been hurt, disappointed, misled, and betrayed, it is no wonder that we have such a hard time trusting one another, what to speak of God.

God doesn’t work by “our rules”, which by the way are often different for every single living entity. He gives us what we need. And what is that need? Normally it’s not the red Porsche, million dollar book deal or perfect relationship. No, often those things will just drive us away from him since we will feel we don’t need anything but material temporary pleasures. What we do need is a reminder that our trust and faith should be put in that person who will never let us down – God.

But we forget this and keep questioning “Why? What did I ever do to deserve this?” Thing is, we cannot remember everything we’ve done to deserve what we’re receiving now, but Krsna does. The law of karma states that for every action, there is an equal reaction. Because we tend to live our lives thinking that nothing comes before or after this lifetime, this truth doesn’t often bring solace to the heart. But, if we were to actually remember this, things won’t affect us as strongly as they do.

Krsna only wants us to come back to him. So everything that happens to us, whether good or bad, is actually an opportunity to remember that. Anyone who is aspiring to reconnect with God will go through this. “But why?” we may ask and the answer is actually quite simple. To make us stronger. To deepen our faith.

Growth only occurs when there is some pressure. Whether it be a weight-lifter, academic or aspiring bhakti yogi, we grow the most in difficult conditions. Not conditions that will break us, but those that will stretch us. God loves us more than we can even fathom, so the next time you pose the question “Why?” remember that. The answer is because we need to grow and he’s giving us the opportunity to come closer to him.

my inspiration for today
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“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – Marianne Williamson

I remember the way I felt the first time I heard this, “Wow, that’s totally applicable to me and everyone I know!” Years later, I’ve realized it’s not only beautiful and inspirational but more importantly, it’s a call to action for all of us. Krsna has given all of us unique abilities and talents and it is our service to culture, nourish them and offer it back in His service. om tat sat. 😀

my inspiration for today
→ kirtaniyah sada hari

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – Marianne Williamson

I remember the way I felt the first time I heard this, “Wow, that’s totally applicable to me and everyone I know!” Years later, I’ve realized it’s not only beautiful and inspirational but more importantly, it’s a call to action for all of us. Krsna has given all of us unique abilities and talents and it is our service to culture, nourish them and offer it back in His service. om tat sat. 😀