My first gurus were my father and mother, who taught me how to think and feel.
My first Gauḍīya-Vaiṣṇava-bhakti-yoga guru was Prabhupāda, Śrīla A.C. Bhaktivedānta Swāmī, via his books – especially the Śrī Īśopaniṣad and Bhagavad-Gītā As It Is.
My first personal mentor was Ray Cappo (now Raghunātha dāsa). He did a good job, considering that he was all of only six months or so more “self-realized” than me! With his help, I decided to visit ISKCON temples and there met my next group of personal mentors. Quite soon, though, I realized that a lot of them were blending Gauḍīya Vaiṣṇavism with their own western secular and religious samskaras and upbringing – so I began narrowing down who among them I truly considered to be my guru.
Soon Raghunātha introduced me to Śrī Dhanurdhara Swāmī, and I immediately considered him to be the ideal guru for me. He initiated me with the various Gauḍīya-Vaiṣṇava mantras, took me under his wing (essentially, I lived with him for four or five years), personally taught me the Nectar of Devotion sentence by sentence, connecting it to the Bhakti Rasāmṛta Sindhu verse by verse, and also tutored me verse by verse, section by section, theme by theme in Bhagavad-Gītā. He exposed me to real, Vṛndāvana bhakti and gave me an undeniable thirst for Vraja-prema, and he remains my constant well-wisher and guide to this day.
My wife, Śyāma-Sakhi, is also my guru. Without scholarship or pretense she teaches me how to apply the principles of bhakti to daily life, and how to be a human being. She steers me away from the dangerous rocks and whirlpools as we cross the ocean of nescience.
I also consider Srī Satyanārāyaṇa dās Bābājī my guru. He is always there to answer almost any question, no matter how detailed or complex, with exact and confident reference to the śāstra as revealed by Śrī Jīva Goswāmī. In particular he is directly guiding my study of Śrī Jīva’s Ṣaḍ-Sandarbha.
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