
One thing that comes from doing a lot of community preaching is that you get recognized and approached; sometimes it’s a little difficult if say I’m with a client. Recently I’ve been asked to come to several new groups to myself and also asking if I plan to put on a Diwali Celebration again this year.
At times it’s because the individual is struggling in life and want some advice of a spiritual nature so I try to take the time out no matter how busy; on occasions I’ve had to make arrangements to meet over a drink.
On occasions due to my presence on the internet via my blog many have e-mailed me with questions and their struggles in devotional life, on occasions I’ve been able to meet the person, other times I’ve been able to hook them up with a local devotee, on occasion’s their has been an opportunity to distribute books.
Last year just before being admitted to hospital I had been stopped by numerous individual’s who felt that they could no longer continue in the society feeling they didn’t have a place or felt forced to conform ; indeed I had several e-mails waiting for an answer one was substantially long it took me nearly an hour to read through.
So I used the analogy of a round peg in a square hole, some disagree with this analogy but when I summed up the conversations it came down to this; they had a desire or expectation and felt that the society didn’t allow that con-straining them forcing them into a mould. Many were put off by the emphasis on courses and exams, there is nothing wrong with this many enjoy but if your not very academic this is a sure fire way to make them run to the door.
What I noticed was that they were missing out on one vitally important ingredient to have a health devotional life and that is up-building association and a service that engages them on both a emotional and physical level.
As we talk there is one question, why do I travel so far every month; what do I gain out of it?
Fantastic association, the opportunity to do a varied amount of service and most important encouragement for me personally without encouragement things are difficult. Indeed several have asked me to write about my nursing and how it’s given me many varied opportunities to share love of Krishna.
Several of them had heard of the mentor-ship system and sadly had dismissed it feeling it was a way to force them to conform, spend money on courses rather than seeing it as a positive thing to do in order to make a greater progress in devotional life.
Perception and Perspective
And so after spending much time listening, answering questions and finding out more about the person I spoke to it occurred to me that we need more mentors, from varied backgrounds and that it allows us to get to know the person as an individual then tailor a spiritual plan based on their strengths.
As I tell those who speak to me, there is many opportunities, many services, many different and diverse people; it’s not always going to be perfect yes there is going to be struggles but sticking with it brings the greatest of rewards.
After all ask yourself if their wasn’t the greatest pleasure and benefit then what would be the point of my traveling so far?
And so when stopped, e-mailed or asked for me personally it’s an opportunity to engage and encourage even if at time’s I may not agree with their point of view but knowing what they are feeling and thinking gives the greatest chance of helping.
Great mentor-ship allows this to happen.
Great mentor’s mean’s giving our most valuable asset our time.
And this is one valuable lesson I’ve learned that either with the community group’s, client’s, individual’s I’ve met or have contacted me giving them my time, being non-judgmental and on occasions agreeing to disagree brings the greatest rewards when you see them individual remaining in the greatest society found here in the material earth.