Sometimes you get an interesting question that means rather than giving a simple answer it makes you pause and ponder, explore and indeed ask yourself a number of questions before putting down an answer. I like these sort of questions as being challenged always encourages and inspires.
it was a basic question on the guru disciple relationship and how if this is the most important relationship why does it appear to be less intimate than all other relationships?
We do emphasise the guru disciple relationship to the point that in many ways we miss the more subtle shiksha guru emphasising the importance of Diksha guru so that one becomes almost obsessed with the pursuit of one’s own initiating guru.
It made me think about one’s own experience of diksha guru and indeed that of many of those I know, few get to directly serve their own guru maharaja indeed even when we look at Srila Prabhupada he didn’t spend much time with his guru maharaja. It is actually the instruction of the initiating spiritual master that makes the difference. If we want to make great advancement taking the guru’s instruction seriously means that we will make it home back to Godhead this lifetime. Again Srila Prabhupada was the greatest example of this as he kept always focused on his Guru Maharaja’s instructions, indeed the instruction and more to the point our sincerity in following the instruction makes it the most important relationship.
However for many this is not always the most important understanding of relationship and require a more intimate personal time to which they feel loved and can speak to regularly; which is more rare than normal within the vaishnava movement .
If we analyse and ponder the greatest and more intimate relationship, the one that we will benefit from each and every day is that of the shiksha guru. Our friends and association who will be there during our high’s and low’s in our krishna consciousness life. They are the persons who we will have the greatest association with, will be at the end of a phone, who we will serve alongside with.
For those who have been successful in krishna consciousness have several things in common:
they have taken the instruction of there guru maharaja seriously
they have surrounded themselves with friends and individuals who are also serious in there krishna consciousness
They have the ability to inspire others to take Krishna Consciousness seriously.
My conclusion thought was that Shiksha Guru is in many ways more important than Diksha Guru as these great saintly people those I have intimate personal relationships with are the ones who daily inspire and encourage me in continuing in devotional life; this despite my own battle with my mind.
So if you find yourself struggling in Krishna Consciousness there will be two things missing
taking the instruction of the Diksha Guru seriously
taking the association of our Siksha Guru seriously
In both if we are serious then success will always be there.