By Mayapur dasa - London
HOW MAY I SERVE YOU TODAY?
One question I sometimes ask Srila Prabhupada or Krsna in the morning is:
How may I serve today?
The first time I asked this question, some years ago, the whole day went by without any sign of service. After work, I went to temple for 9pm arti, but still nothing. On my way home, I walked past Leceister square (Central London). There, my attention was drawn to a man asking people around him “do you want this?” and he had this book that nobody wanted. So he consequently threw it in a nearby refuse bin before walking away. As the book flew into the bin, I thought I recognized the burgundy and gold cover but was not sure. So I went over and looked into the bin and was astonished to see a Srimad Bhagavatam. The book was still in very good condition and had not been spoilt by the contents of the bin. I picked it up, and fully understanding what Krsna wanted me to do, went to a friend’s house in Golders Green (North London) and gave it to him as a gift. I then went home peaceful, having accomplished my allocated service for the day.
IF YOU DON'T ASK
If you don’t ask, you don’t know.
If you don’t know, you remain ignorant.
If are ignorant, you suffer.
If you suffer, you must ask.
If you don’t ask …
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A STUPID QUESTION
When devotees hesitate to ask a question, they often describe it as a “stupid question”. This usually means they are afraid of appearing stupid, of being embarrassed, of being rejected, of being ridiculed. This fearful mental disposition is a hurdle to learning. Concerns about appearing stupid means concern for appearance, image or reputation is a bodily thing. Rising above these will widen opportunities for learning, happiness and fulfillment, for oneself and for others. In a group, it is the responsibility of the speaker/ trainer/ teacher/ lecturer, to create an atmosphere of trust, confidentiality as well as prompt attendees to make enquiries.
To ask a question is to demonstrate a desire to learn, but when in a group the questioner may become hesitant, thinking their question might not be relevant. There are two answers to this:
(i) the fact that you want to ask means the question is relevant to you. Therefore, ask.
(ii) If you are concerned whether your question is relevant to others, you have no choice but to ask to find out. No one benefits when you hold back a question. Neither you, nor others.
In my 12 years experience as a trainer in the business world, I can confidently say, those who overcome their fear and ask questions, often unknowingly open the doors of learning for others who were more shy to ask the exact same questions. I have seen this over and over. When that happens, the sense of relief is noticeable on faces and in the atmosphere of the room.
THREE CONSIDERATIONS: WHAT TO ASK? HOW TO ASK? WHEN TO ASK?
1. What to ask?
The injunction for the devotee is pariprasnena – to enquire. This means philosophical enquiries. The nature and depth of such enquiries, I have observed, depends on how much one reads Srila Prabhupada’s purports. Without this, enquiries remain rather mundane – shall I get married or not? shall I do this service or not? how can I work out what is my varna? how do I resolve this dispute with that prabhu or mataji? The nature of questions are indicative of the level of philosophical understanding. The more devotees read, the more relevant and pertinent the philosophical enquiries and everyone becomes enlivened in Krishna consciousness.
MORNING CLASS
In Kali-yuga, there are no "sruti-dhara" students (one who can immediately remember everything). When students carry books and notebooks into the class, it indicates they are serious about learning and remembering. In such an atmosphere, asking questions becomes an exciting experience. When students are left to listen passively, without books, without taking notes, without the governing principles of a typical class, they do not become excited about the knowledge, about devotional service or about Krishna. How much devotees learn is noticeable by the nature of questions they ask during and after class. The result of excellent questions is amazing enthusiasm for Krishna and devotional service, and amazing happiness!