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Question: When we fail in life how can we immediately understand that past karma is at work
Answer:
It is not necessary that we always have to resort to past karma only. Suppose on a cold night somebody eats ten ice creams. And then the next morning, they have a terrible throat and they say, ice cream! Now, their terrible throat, is it because of past karma? Yeah, past night karma.
It’s not that everything that happens to us is just because of past karma. There is a combination of present karma and past karma which comes together in giving us certain results. That’s why we have to be practical also. That means if I am doing something and I am not getting the result then is there something that I could do to improve it? We should think about it. We should not think that it is past karma. In one sense, over-reliance on past karma as explanation will make us very passive and fatalistic. Over reliance on present karma will make us very insecure and volatile because every failure we will start taking it too personally.
So, if I don’t do well in an exam, sometimes it may be that I may not have studied, but sometimes I have studied well, but still I didn’t do well in an exam. Sometimes it happens that people try to form a relationship and it doesn’t work. It could be that there is something wrong with me, but sometimes it’s just that the other person is at fault. We shouldn’t presume that, but sometimes it can be like that. Sometimes some people are just abusive, some people are terrible. Then something doesn’t work out. In today’s culture where people have dating and everything, if somebody breaks up with them people feel so insecure after that. They feel maybe I am unloved; I will be unlovable. People become very insecure. One of the top ten fears of people in today’s world is the fear of rejection that I form a relationship and I may get rejected by someone.
If we rely too much on present karma then what happens? Our life becomes very volatile. We become very unstable because we take everything very personally. But sometimes things don’t have to be taken so personally. So, we have to put things in the right frame of reference. Normally the immediate cause-effect is the first frame of reference. Suppose if I go for a program somewhere and there is nobody there for the program. Now, I could take it personally and say I am such a poor speaker that nobody comes. That could be true but suppose that program has been done at a place where at the same time there is some other big event going on and everybody has gone there. Then I have to put it in that context. I remember I went for a program in one country and the host invited me in. He said, actually I’m going for that program. You can sit. Whoever comes, they’ll attend this class. That was quite humbling. But you don’t have to necessarily take everything too personally.
Rather than thinking of a right explanation or wrong explanation, if we do something and we get some result, is it because of our present karma or past karma? Rather than trying to get too much into that analysis, we must focus more on trying to find the most constructive frame of reference in which to put it. It’s not that one frame of reference is right and the other is wrong. We don’t know in these cases what is right and what is wrong. But what is the most constructive frame of reference?
If I have done something and I have not done it so well, then the most constructive frame of reference is, okay, let me take care of this in future. But if I have done the best that I can and still the result is not coming then the most constructive frame of reference is, yeah, there is some past karma involved, then let me move on. Now moving on also, we will have to use our intelligence to decide, okay, should I keep doing this? And if we have given a reasonable amount of tries for that and that is not working, maybe that is not meant to work. We need to move to something else. So, rather than trying to simply resign the results to past karma alone, we try to place things in the most constructive frame of reference so that we can move on in our life.
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