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He was always charitable to brahmanas and equally befriended other castes. He never showed pride, and his amiable disposition was a characteristic feature of his life. He never accepted gifts from anyone; he even declined all honors and titles offered by the government to him on the grounds that they might stand against his holy mission of life. He was very strict in moral principles, and avoided the luxurious life; he would not even chew betel. He disliked theaters because they were frequented by "public women." He spoke Bengali, Sanskrit, English, Latin, Urdu, Persian, and Oriya. He started writing books at age 12, and continued turning out a profuse number of volumes up until his departure from this world. Continue reading "The Life of Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakur
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HH Prahladananda Swami’s lecture in ISKCON Ljubljana, Slovenia’s capital.
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*Chalayasi vikramane balim adbhuta-vamana pada-nakha-nira-janita-jana-pavana kesava dhrta-vamana-rupa jaya jagadisa hare* “O Kesava! O Lord of the universe! O Lord Hari, who have assumed the form of a dwarf-brahmana! All glories to You! O wonderful dwarf, by Your massive steps You deceive King Bali, and by the Ganges water that has emanated from the nails of […]

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In the last few weeks, the online game called the Blue Whale challenge has triggered consternation and alarm as it has prompted several teenagers in India and the world over to commit suicide. In this online game, some unknown, often untraceable, moderators challenge kids to do various unpleasant and self-injurious tasks such as marking their bodies with knives. And in the last such challenge, they ask the kids to commit suicide. Shockingly, several students have seen ending their lives as a worthy challenge – and have killed themselves.

Our need for validation

Most sane people will wonder, ‘Why would anyone accept such a foolhardy challenge?’ Unfortunately, the foolhardy doesn’t seem foolhardy to us during our vulnerable adolescent years, when we are desperately seeking some sense of identity that helps us feel good about ourselves. As we are social creatures, we need validation and affirmation from others. In cultured societies, this need is channeled constructively by encouraging people to do good things for getting validated. For example, children who want their parents’ validation are encouraged to do well in their studies. As they grow into adulthood and get married, then they are encouraged to seek validation by taking care of their family responsibly. Overall, cultured societies have systems for constructively channeling the basic human need for validation by encouraging people to act responsibly.

Among our life’s various stages, the stage of adolescence makes us especially vulnerable because during these years our source of validation changes significantly. Indeed, our sense of our very identity changes. Children are defined as the son of so and so or the daughter of so and so. But as they grow to adolescence, their identity enters into a zone of transition and uncertainty. They are not yet adults with their own degrees, jobs and social positions – all of which would comprise their defining identity. And yet they are too grown up to be satisfied by identifying themselves solely as their parents’ children. Their yearning to have their own identity, can make them inordinately influenceable by their social circles. The social circle in which teenagers live determines whether they seek validation through studies or other constructive co-curricular or extracurricular activities, or through self-destructive indulgences.

Validation in the Internet world

Nowadays, our social circles have become largely digitalized, at least for those living in urban environment, and especially for the younger generation. In today’s hi-tech world, people feel validated if they have large number of Facebook friends or if their Instagram photos get a large number of likes. In an Internet-centered world, the areas from which people can seek validation have expanded drastically. This change is not always bad – the need for validation can be channeled either constructively or destructively.

As examples of constructive channeling, many people seek validation by contributing on various online forums. Some people write and edit Wikipedia articles; some answer questions on Quora; some offer technical advice on Apple Discussion forums. Most such forums have a whole system of hierarchy, whereby those contributing more get a higher rank. And that rank becomes a significant part of the contributors’ sense of identity and self-worth, thereby providing them their needed validation. Thus, even in the hi-tech world, the human need for validation can be channeled constructively when people share their knowledge and help.

However, during teenage years when we don’t have much substantial knowledge to share, the need for validation can make us vulnerable to destructive influences – such as the Blue Whale Challenge.

Social media promises both space and connection

What further misdirects the need for validation is the subtle and not-so-beneficial effect that social media can have on our psyche. Social media, its name notwithstanding, can make us quite asocial, disconnecting us from those around us.

We human beings have two needs: the need for connection and the need for space. The need for connection impels us to relate and reciprocate with others. The need for space impels us to retreat into solitude, as when we tell others: “Just leave me alone.”

Social media allures by promising us both space and connection. When we are clicking away on our devices, we are not involved with the people around us, thus making us feel that we have our space. But simultaneously, because we are communicating with people through social media, we feel connected. Actually however, we may be getting neither space nor connection. The notion of having space is often an illusion because everything we do online is tracked and traceable – what we have is not privacy, but the illusion of privacy. And the connections we develop online may be very superficial – how many of our Facebook friends will be our friends in need is questionable.

Amidst such a social media culture that fosters isolation while promising connection, people feel increasingly lonely. They seek to connect with and get validated by anyone, even strangers who challenge them to do difficult things. Validation from people unknown to us becomes especially appealing when we don’t feel validated by from people known to us. Nowadays, people are increasingly afflicted by loneliness. Hundreds and thousands of people may be crowded together in metropolitan cities, but they are alone because they are all busy clicking away on their devices, connecting with someone somewhere else and seeking validation through that connection. And kids are especially prone to loneliness because they often feel distanced from their parents and feel insecure among their peers, who are all often engaged in intense competition over marks, looks and partners.

Seeking validation through dangerous actions

Some people feel, “If I can do something difficult, something dangerous, then that will prove I am someone worthwhile.” Many traditions have provided channels for people seeking validation through dangerous actions – channels such as death-defying sports. In the Greco-Roman Empire, there were matadors who would fight bulls and would risk getting gored, trampled or even killed. If they could fell the bull, they would be feted as heroes.

Nowadays, that spirit of seeking validation by courting danger is seen in living-on-the-edge sports where people jump from helicopters without opening their parachutes or people walk on treacherous mountain trails to get to the highest peak. And in a world of digital socialization, that tendency to seek validation through dangerous actions can impel vulnerable teenagers to accept the challenge to do something difficult, even if that challenge is offered by some stranger on social media.

Teenagers are desperately in search of an identity that makes them feel good about themselves – so, challenges to do difficult things can easily turn them on. When that challenge asks them to hurt themselves, they get a perverse sense of specialness in the thrill of doing something difficult. Driven by the desire for that thrill, they do self-hurting things that they would otherwise never have done. Gradually, they end up trapped, subjecting themselves to bad feelings at a physical level to get good feelings about themselves at the social media level. Eventually, this distorted idea of feeling bad to feel good can impel them to demonstrate that they are winners in the Blue Whale Challenge, even if demonstrating that requires them to kill themselves.

Healthy channels for self-validation

We all need healthy channels for self-validation. Parents can be natural channels of validation for children. But with the world changing so fast, kids often tend to see their parents as hopelessly outdated, as utterly disconnected from the world they are living in.

Undoubtedly, parents need to bridge this generational gap and strive to act as their childrens’ friends and guides. But ultimately, there’s only so much that even the best parents can do for their children – after all, those children have their own free will and they will use it in the way that makes the most sense to them, even if that way is nonsense.

With today’s hi-tech world offering everyone so many avenues for using and misusing free will, the best service that parents can do for their children is to provide them healthy sources of self-validation. The healthiest such source is connection with the indwelling guide of all living beings, God. Gita wisdom explains that we are at our core spiritual beings, eternal parts of God. And the same Gita reveals God to be an all-attractive, all-loving, all-merciful, all-powerful, all-wise vision of God who cares deeply for us. No matter what bad things happens to us or even what bad things we do, he never abandons us. Understanding God’s unfailing, unflinching love for us gives us a stable sense of inner validation. If the basic principles of the Gita are presented in ways accessible and appealing to kids, they can have in their connection with the divine a powerful negativity-dispeller and perspective-restorer.

Of course, such an understanding can’t be just intellectual – it needs to be facilitated at social and practical levels. As kids are significantly shaped by their social circles, spiritually responsible societies strive to provide their kids a circle of spiritually inclined peers. In such a spiritual social circle, we get validation by deepening our philosophical conviction, by strengthening our spiritual connection and by finding satisfaction through the growth of our devotion. When we seek validation thus, we practice bhakti-yoga diligently, thereby getting better realization that we, as souls, are parts of the Whole who always loves us, who always cares for us, and who never abandons us. With such realization, and within a spiritual culture that provides such realizations, we feel spiritually validated and can reject destructive forms of self-validation. This same principle of protection from destructive validation through spiritual validation applies to kids, provided it is made accessible to them.

At a practical level, we need to help our children relish bhakti practices customized according to their level – as in devotional art, music, dramas, picnics and projects. If they can thus relish the sweetness of bhakti and understand this sweetness to be a glimpse of Krishna’s love for them, they will be better equipped to resist whatever negative channels for validation that the world might present them.

The Blue Whole Challenge

In the bhakti literatures, God, Krishna, is revealed to be a bluish-black cowherd boy. He is the whole, and we are His parts. In the Bhagavad-gita, Krishna offers his philosophical-yet-pragmatic message for living and working – and concludes with a challenge (18.63): Deliberate deeply on the Gita and then do as you desire. Through this call, he invites us to rise to spiritual wholeness by harmonizing with the whole, as he emphatically declares a few verses later in his call for surrender (18.66). And the Gita climaxes with an assurance of ultimate victory for those who have the courage to surrender (18.78).

So, we could say that bhakti wisdom offers us a Blue Whole challenge. Therein, the whole challenges us to bring out our best, to live in harmony with our spiritual essence, to break free from the inner negativities that choke our potential. To discover and develop our talents in a mood of devotion and then to express those talents in a mood of contribution – that is the most uplifting way to get validation. And that is the essence of the Blue Whole Challenge. Through this challenge, our need for validation is channeled constructively and fulfilled deeply through our internal connection with our source and through the external contribution we make in a mood of service.

The Gita (15.07) indicates that if we don’t learn to live in harmony with the Whole, we end up allured by anything that our mind and senses may present – allurements that often make us struggle and suffer. The Blue Whale challenge exemplifies an extreme and destructive direction in which our mind may drag us in our pursuit of validation. Most of us will not succumb for such a patently self-destructive challenge. But as long as we are seeking validation in anything separate from God, we too are seeking some course of life that hurts our spiritual potential, a milder Blue Whale Challenge of sorts. We may seek validation through alcoholism or through workaholism or through wealth accumulation. Even if these ways of seeking external validation are not so destructive, even if they are socially respectable, still they keep us alienated from the Whole, who alone can provide us enduring fulfilment.

Instead if we turn towards the Whole by understanding our spiritual identity and practicing bhakti-yoga diligently, then we can find meaningful and enduring validation – and so can others, being inspired and guided by our example. Thus, by accepting the Blue Whole challenge to live in harmony with the Whole, we can protect ourselves and protect our loved ones from various forms of Blue Whale challenges, be they lethally malignant or mildly malignant.

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Radha Syama’s dress maker in Vrndavana who has been visiting NVD before his return to Vraja today.

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A Secret Pathway (Album with photos)
Indradyumna Swami: Just before leaving Vrindavan we went to Varsana to seek the blessings of Radha and Krsna. When a group of blissful sadhus passed by we joined their parikrama and discovered a secret pathway through a forest near Varsana. Some of the ‘desire trees’ in the forest were over 5,000 years old! I hugged one of them and prayed for more service in spreading the holy names of Krsna all over the world. Coming out of the forest we visited other holy places, gosalas and residents of that sacred abode.
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[Youth program at Bhakti House for University of North Florida students, Jacksonville, USA]

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[Chaitanya Charitamrita class on Madhya 8.111 at ISKCON, Denver, USA]

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Srila Prabhupada said that to honor festivals such as Rama Navami and Vamana Dvadasi, a small boy could play the part of Krishna’s incarnation and the devotees could worship him accordingly. So every year in ISKCON Mayapur, a young gurukula boy takes on the role of Lord Vamanadeva. At midday on Sri Vamana Dvadasi, the curtains of the altar are drawn back to reveal that Lord Vamanadeva has appeared. A young brahmachari boy stands on the altar, dressed in a saffron dhoti and deerskin, and wearing a flower garland. He carries a chatram, or umbrella, in one hand and a kamandalu, or waterpot, in the other. Continue reading "A Special Way to Observe Vamana Dvadasi
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Celebrating transcendentally Janmastami and Srila Prabhupada’s Vyasa Puja in New Vraja Dhama (8 min video)
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His Holiness Bhakti Charu Swami Maharaja gave an wonderful talk on the topic “Becoming Instruments for Mahaprabhu’s Mercy”. Please read...

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His Holiness Bhakti Charu Swami Maharaja encouraged devotees all over the world towards observing the Holy Name Week (9th – 17th...

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Sadbhuja prabhu answers important questions about the metals being used for the TOVP, such as Gold, Titanium Nitrate, Stainless Steel, Bronze, etc.

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Ratha Yatra on August 12th in Moscow's Sokolniki park as part of the celebrations of 70 years of Indian-Russian relations. Thousands of people were in attendance. 

This is a film about the Hare Krishna community in Villa Vrindavana near Florence in Italy. It shows the different aspects of the project and we hear from some of the residents. A video by Vrisabhanu Das.

New community president Yadunandana Swami, who formerly served as principal in Belgium’s Bhaktivedanta College, had seen many families leave Spain over the years due to lack of spiritual education for their children.

Brand, a practising Hindu, continues to prove his fascination with India.

The Krishna devotee community in Moundsville, W.Va., has been giving and taking its share of the earth’s bounty for decades. In recent years it signed leases with two natural gas companies, giving them access to the fuel trapped inside. The lease bonus money has already gone a long way toward restoring New Vrindaban’s campus, which had fallen into disrepair.

Life can be disheartening. Things go wrong, people do wrong, we ourselves do wrong. Our best laid-plans can be wrecked by one massive upheaval or thwarted by a million tiny bumps. Either way, we end up feeling like giving up.